Following several recent investigations involving sexual assault or stalking connected to online interactions, Boise Police Department Special Victims Unit detectives are sharing safety reminders and available resources for community members who use dating apps and online platforms to meet new people. 

While online dating has become a common way for people to form relationships, recent cases have highlighted concerning trends investigators continue to encounter. Detectives hope increased awareness and practical safety measures can help reduce risk and encourage people to seek help when needed. Timely reporting can also help prevent repeat offenders.   

“Most people who use dating apps or social media will never experience violence, but taking simple precautions can help protect your safety when meeting someone new,” said Boise Police Special Victims Unit Lieutenant Tim Brady. 

When meeting someone you’ve connected with online: 

• Meet in public and stay in public. 

• Avoid meeting anyone you don’t know well at a private residence. 

• Arrange your own transportation and meet at the location rather than accepting a ride. 

• Avoid sharing your home address until you know and trust the person. 

• Tell a trusted friend or family member where you are going and who you are meeting. Have them check in with you in case you need to leave the situation. 

• Consider a group setting (going with friends) or sharing your location with someone you trust. 

• If you’re going to drink alcohol, do it responsibly. Enjoy your plans but understand your limits. Always order your own drinks and keep them in your control. 

• Never send money to someone you recently met online. 

• Be clear about your expectations and ensure you are both on the same page. 

• If something feels wrong, leave immediately. 

• Trust your instincts. 

Sexual violence is never the survivor’s fault. No matter the circumstances. If you experience sexual assault or another crime, support services are available whether or not you choose to report to law enforcement.  

“Technology has changed how people meet and how harm can happen. Online dating has created new opportunities for connection, but it can also introduce situations that become dangerous. Raising awareness about these risks is a community responsibility. At the Center, we provide trauma‑informed services, safety planning, forensic exams, and connections to long‑term resources to support survivors every step of the way,” said Trina Allen, LCSW, Executive Director  

Community Resources 

Ada County Victim Services Center – 417 S. 6th Street, Boise 208‑577‑4400 

The Ada County Victim Services Center provides comprehensive, trauma‑informed support for sexual assault survivors, including: 

• 24/7 access for law enforcement reporting: Survivors can meet with advocates and forensic nurses any time, day or night, when reporting through law enforcement. 

• Medical forensic exams: Specialized forensic nurses provide evidence‑based sexual assault exams in a private, supportive environment. 

• Follow‑up medical clinic: Survivors can return for medical follow‑up by appointment to support healing and ongoing care needs. 

• In‑house counseling: The Terry Reilly Trauma & Resilience Center offers trauma‑focused counseling onsite for continued emotional support. 

• Safety planning: Advocates help survivors create personalized plans to increase safety and stability. 

• Advocacy and case support: Assistance navigating the criminal justice process, protection orders, and community resources.